Comparison
Stoner Singles vs High There!
High There! built its profile around photo and video stories, more of a feed-and-discovery feel. We're a dating-first product with community on top. Different bets, different fits.
The short version
High There! leans into the social-discovery feel: stories, video, scrolling through cannabis-friendly people doing cannabis-friendly things. Stoner Singles is more conventional dating-app shape, with filters, messaging, and structured matching as the spine.
Side-by-side
| Stoner Singles | High There! | |
|---|---|---|
| Primary product shape | Dating app with profiles, filters, messaging | Social-discovery with photo and video stories |
| Free tier | Full profile, browse, limited messaging | Comparable |
| UK and US availability | Both, day-one | Both |
| Wider English markets | AU, IE, CA, NZ all active | Variable presence |
| Match flow | Daily suggestions plus search with filters | Discovery feed |
| Content emphasis | Editorial blog and community | User-generated photo and video |
| Audience age skew | 35-54 core | Younger lean, broadly |
| Best fit for | Adults who want filters and conversations to matter | People who want to scroll and discover by vibe |
Where High There! is good
If you respond to a Stories-style feed and want to see cannabis culture as part of how you discover people, that's a real and legitimate product experience. The visual feed gives you a sense of who someone is faster than text bios do, and the user-generated content side keeps the app feeling alive.
For users who'd find Stoner Singles a bit conventional, High There! is a meaningful alternative shape of the same idea.
Where Stoner Singles is different
We're built around the conversation and the match, not the feed. Daily match suggestions, advanced filters (city, distance, experience level, consumption style), messaging that doesn't gate the basic exchange. The structured side is where we put the work in.
Our audience also skews older. The core paid-user band sits 35 to 54. If you'd prefer to date among adults who've been around cannabis long enough to be unremarkable about it, the demographic shape of who you'll see on Stoner Singles fits that.
And the editorial layer. The blog isn't a marketing afterthought, it's commissioned writing from real journalists with publication credits. If you want a dating brand that thinks about cannabis dating seriously, that's the signal.
Who we'd send to High There! instead
If you genuinely prefer the Stories format to a profile-and-filters format. If you're early 20s to early 30s and the median user on Stoner Singles would feel slightly older than you want. If you find dating apps tedious and want something that feels closer to a social feed.
Who we'd suggest Stoner Singles for
If you're past the swipe-and-see era and want filters that actually narrow things down. If you live outside the US, where we have built local user bases rather than treating you as overflow. If you want a conversation about cannabis without it being the conversation.
The bottom line
Two different design philosophies on the same underlying problem. Try the one whose product shape sounds right. The free tiers exist for that. If High There! turns out to be too much feed and not enough match, we're here. And if you want the wider field in one place, our roundup of the best 420 dating apps and sites compares five options in a single table.
How we checked this: the competitor details on this page come from the other platform's own published pages and app-store listings, checked against what our own product actually does. Where we cannot verify a detail about a competitor, we say so rather than guessing.
Frequently asked questions
What kind of app is High There!?
High There! is a social-discovery app for cannabis-friendly people, built around photo and video stories. You scroll a visual feed and discover people by vibe, rather than working through structured profiles and filters.
Is High There! good for dating?
It can be, if you prefer discovering people through a feed. Matching is driven by discovery rather than structured search. Stoner Singles takes the opposite approach: daily match suggestions, advanced filters and messaging as the spine of the product.
What is the age difference between Stoner Singles and High There!?
Stoner Singles' core paid-user band sits at 35 to 54, while High There! has a broadly younger lean. If you are in your early 20s to early 30s, High There! may feel closer in age; if you are past the swipe-and-see era, Stoner Singles fits better.
Does High There! work outside the US?
High There! is available in both the UK and the US, with variable presence beyond those. Stoner Singles runs active markets in the UK, US, Australia, Ireland, Canada and New Zealand.
Should I try High There! or Stoner Singles first?
Pick by product shape. If a Stories-style visual feed sounds right, start with High There!. If you want filters, structured matching and conversations that matter, start with Stoner Singles. Both have free tiers, so trying either costs nothing.
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